Occasionally I come across a video (generally a WMV/ASF file) which contains an obviously incorrect aspect ratio in the metadata. Coming from the still photography world, I'm a neophyte when it comes to video encoding, but I've come to rely on FFmpeg to handle this type of problem.
A quick google search revealed a solution on superuser.com which also provided an explanation of how and why this problem might arise. The "approved" answer (with the green check mark) worked for me. I wasn't really interested in transcoding, which essentially is just making up data, I just wanted things to look right, so I used the following command:
$ ffmpeg -i <INPUT_FILE> -aspect 16:9 -c copy [OUTPUT_FILE]
Another video I found needed an aspect ratio of 2.35:1. In this case, just enter the 2.35 as the aspect.
As always, YMMV.
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